Dena Merlino Scott

Wilmington Officiant

Dena Merlino Scott brings warmth, presence, and heartfelt intention to every ceremony she
officiates. A gifted writer and experienced public speaker, she is known for crafting deeply
personal ceremonies that reflect each couple’s unique story, values, and vision. Since officiating
her first wedding in 2016 — a life-changing moment sparked by her sister’s belief in her ability
to speak about love with authenticity and depth — Dena has been devoted to helping couples
create meaningful, memorable experiences that celebrate connection in all its forms.

“Dena was flexible, professional and very personable. Her spirit is manifest clearly in her preparation and presentation. We highly recommend her to any couples seeking to have an inspired ceremony. Simply the best!”
~John B.

Based in Wilmington and Wrightsville Beach, NC, Dena draws on a rich and diverse background
that includes a Master’s degree in Literature, a 100-hour meditation teacher certification, and
professional experience in marketing, photography, and international business. Her broad
worldview and spiritual grounding allow her to hold space for couples from many walks of life,
honoring a wide range of beliefs, traditions, and personal journeys. She approaches every
ceremony with compassion, creativity, and a genuine love for storytelling.

Dena also specializes in unique salt ceremonies, using intentionally hand-crafted salt gathered
from the oceans of Wrightsville Beach inspired by Earth sciences and the ancient art of alchemy.
Through this practice, she weaves symbolism, intention, and natural elements into celebrations,
creating experiences that feel both timeless and deeply personal.

“Dena invested the time in getting to know us as a couple, by learning about how we met and our history together. Allowing us to express our ideas and thoughts, Dena designed the perfect ceremony-while keeping our wishes in mind.”
~Lia P.

Dena believes ceremonies are sacred opportunities to pause, reflect, and celebrate love in its
many expressions. She is honored to stand beside couples during life’s most meaningful
moments, guiding them with presence, authenticity, and a deep appreciation for the beauty of
shared human connection. Love & Wisdom is so fortunate to have her on our team!