Jennifer Ludders

Asheville Officiant

Jennifer’s presence generates a sense of ease and harmony in those around her. Her greatest joy is helping people cultivate deeper connections—whether with themselves, their partner, or the divine. She continually leans into the question, “How can we love each other better?”

Toward that end, Jennifer supports individuals and couples as a relationship coach, helping them to grow their love and intimacy, navigate their differences, improve communication and repair conflict. As a certified SYMBIS facilitator, she especially loves supporting premarital couples in building a strong foundation for their marriage. Wedding officiating is a natural extension of Jennifer’s dedication to couples – guiding them as they cross the sacred threshold into marriage, honoring the beauty of their devotion.

“Our officiant, Jennifer, was absolutely amazing and kind, and listened to all of the things that were important to us. Our guests are still talking about how special our ceremony was – and how it was one of the most unique ones they had ever been a part of!” ~Anna C.

Jennifer has lived and traveled extensively around the world and now resides with her partner, Howard, in the nourishing mountains of Black Mountain, NC. Earlier in her career, she worked as a U.S. diplomat serving in Mexico, Washington D.C. and Vietnam. She is a fluent Spanish speaker, and also knows some Portuguese, Italian, and Vietnamese!

Jennifer’s spiritual path has also been a winding and expansive one. From a childhood in the Seventh-day Adventist tradition to deep immersion in Eastern spiritual practices—spending thousands of hours in silent meditation—she eventually rediscovered a profound resonance with Christianity, though through a more mystical lens. She believes that the truth is one but the paths are many, and she has deep respect for each person’s chosen journey.

“Jennifer Ludders exceeded all expectations! She spoke clearly, with a great deal of love and respect, and always had a smiling face. Our guests continue to rave about how beautiful the ceremony was! They also say it was the best ceremony they’ve ever been to. I cannot recommend this company, and specifically Jennifer, enough!” ~Emilee D.

As an officiant for Love & Wisdom, Jennifer feels deeply honored to be able to draw out the most unique and meaningful aspects of a couple’s relationship, weaving it into a heartfelt custom ceremony. She is excited to serve as a catalyst for the joyous and sacred initiation of your new life together!